Monday, April 30, 2012
How To Let Your Time Work For You.
Is your time working for you or against you? This is a serious question. Many times we sit back and fritter our time away doing nothing. We fail to schedule our tasks, we fail to make up our minds on what we ought to do and worst still expect the cosmic forces to set things in place for miracles to happen. We fail to do what we set out to do and rush to meet deadlines. In the process, we end up starting all over again or lose out completely on achieving our goals. This is not how we are wired to operate.
Just as you can make your money work for you so also can you make your time work for you. There is a Roman saying that preparation meets opportunities to turn to luck or success. This means for you to be successful, you need to prepare and lay in wait in the corridor of opportunities. Wow. That's all about making your time work for you. Time used positively will likely bring about productive outcomes. Once again, if you prepare and station yourself in the right places you are closer to hitting it big with your time. Let me take it a notch higher: it took you some effort to get to my blog. It was either I directly or indirectly invited you via facebook, friends, acquaintances or through your personal discovery. All I am saying is that it took some actions on your part to explore these contents. Don’t sit back, take action. Make your time work for you.
Learn how to focus on tasks that give your time value. Focus on your major activities and keep track of minor activities that might slow you down towards getting to your goals. Achieving goals set for yourself is a pointer that you are investing your time wisely. If you are the type of person that always wait for the final nod before you move ahead doing your tasks chances are that your are selling yourself short. Guys that get promoted are those that make their time work for them. They take charge of their time.The are always proactive. Always learn how to add value to processes in your organization or in anything you do. It saves everybody a lot of time. Here are three tips to keep your ahead of making your time work for you:
1. Know your direction: Do not rush into anything without giving it a thought. You don’t need to say "yes" to that task if it’s going to affect on your own work. Any activity that will impact negatively on your overall goals and objectives should be totally discarded. Why pile added work that will not take you any where? I can’t imagine you working on any other person's desk when you have files to treat and calls to atted to. It is not just fair on yourself. Learn how to politely say "no". A lot of us keep our goals in the cooler while we are busy helping other people achieve their goals. What an irony. This takes me in to the second tip to making your time work for you.
2. Focus on your goals: Whether your goals are personal or collective just get focused on them. For somebody working in a corporate organization, your major goal is adding value to that organization. Any other contrary goal will lead you nowhere and will make your time work against you. You don’t need to do everything that needs to be done in your office yourself but you need to do what you ought to do while you are focused on your goals. Once again, you need to focus on your goal. You need to mind your own business. Successful people don’t do everything they need to do themselves, they do want needs to be done and get the remaining done through other people. This is a profound statement and interestingly takes me to the third tip.
3. Learn how to delegate: There is great power in delegation. From a company's organograms, it is very clear for an observer to know who does what and who reports to whom they are expected to. This saves unnecessary disruption of the flow of operation. It is impossible to achieve your goals alone, so you have to develop the skills of selecting your team. You don’t need to be a boss to learn the importance of delegating tasks. You can delegate even in your house or among your activities. You can delegate tasks and also responsibilities. You cannot put your clothes in the washing machine in the morning when you are supposed to be at work because it is normal that you do your laundry. Everybody expects you to be clean and presentable, but that does not mean you should do your laundry while you ought to be at work. Why not try the laundry man or schedule the task till later in the day? You need to do what you ought to do when you ought to do it.
Making your time work for you in all you do is a lot of job but it is a job worth doing. I see you on top of your riches.
Kolawole Kehinde is the C.O.O of The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc and currently lives in Abuja. He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.com and kolayore@yahoo.com. You can also call him on 2348097705804 for speaking events and seminars on personal development, time management, leadership and marketing business services in the 21st century.
Sunday, April 29, 2012
Gratitude: A Must Have Social and Business Skill
What are you grateful for? Why do you have to be grateful?
Gratitude simply means being thankful. Gratitude is important in business and
in everyday living. The fact that you simply said “thank you” can open doors
for you most times. It shows that you appreciate a gesture or favor done to
you. Let us reason together. Can you remember how many times this has happened
to you? For me it is quite uncountable and in most cases it was accompanied
with a smile and the phrase “you are welcome”. There is power in the phrase
thank you.
Be grateful when you wake up in the morning. When a favor is
being extended to you just show that you are thankful. When you are offered a
seat in a crowded lobby please say thank you and be grateful;l and when you are
been offered an opportunity to serve say thank you. A grateful heart is a rich
heart. There are so many things to be grateful for. You have eyes that see, you
are reading this article and it just a brand new day. This is a lot to be grateful
for. There are so many gratitude killers; envy, greed, malice, selfishness,
covetousness etc. even if you don’t drive a fancy car be grateful that you can
move around and still meet your appointments. Even if your rent is about due
and your boss is breathing down your neck, just be grateful. At least you have
a job.
As I read about the protesters of Occupy Wall Street
something really deep dropped in my mind. I still have a job and I have a lot
of clients that are happy to see me. You see, life is viewed by most people as
being half full or half empty. Viewing life as half full can be a more
appealing perspective and I suggest you see life as half full. It grows your
enthusiasm and willingness to aspire for more. It opens your mind to a whole
new world of possibilities. I will not dwell on the protesters but between you
and I there is something to be grateful. For the fact that protesters were
given the opportunity to show their displeasure is a lot to be grateful for.
Look at lives that have been lost in Egypt, Syria, Libya and Tunisia. The fact
that things are not going as you planned doesn’t mean that you should lose hope
on life. Whenever I look back and reflect how much I have been blessed I give
so much thanks. Gratitude in business goes beyond saying thank you. It involves
serving courteously, serving with a large heart and with all sense of
enthusiasm.
Be grateful that you have a life; be grateful that you have
a job even if the rate of unemployment is rising. In Nigeria, where I live the
rate of youth unemployment is a staggering 40%. This is quite high if you ask
me, but those who do not find themselves in this bracket are sure damn
grateful. To serve is a privilege and a call of duty. Even if you are not yet
gainfully employed be grateful that you are employable. In my few years of
social interactions I have never seen a person with a great smile being turned
down. A smile expressed opens the heart. A smile opens the door. If you are not
a grateful person it will be difficult to move far in life. Look at all you have
and have become and dwell less on what you don’t have. It pays to be grateful.
I see you on top of your riches.
Kolawole Kehinde is the C.O.O of The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc and currently lives in Abuja. He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.com and kolayore@yahoo.com 2348055159014 for speaking events and seminars on personal development, time management and marketing business services in the 21st century.
You Can Project...But Propel Too
We
are all master strategists…at least in our minds. The minds of men have
conceived great dreams, ideas, projects, schemes and action plans, even some
documented but sadly not implemented. Various management books emphasize on the
importance of planning as crucial and as a matter of fact the first function of
any credible endeavor. This is quite true because who is the person that wants
to build a house and would not sit down to count the cost before he start lest
he abandons it in the middle of the project. In as much as planning is good, a
plan which has not been executed is just a mere dream, a wish at best. In my
few years of working with various bosses, I have come to realize that it is not
most of those that have great plans that succeed but those who work on what
they have i.e. the plans they have made for a project or exercise to take
place.
I
have so many plans of the things I really want to do, some even lying in my
folder for years that have not seen the light of the day. I am sure you do too.
We can never accomplish everything we have set our minds to and that should not
dampen our spirits. In fact it should be what to spur you to start working on
the things that are most important and which will really impact positively in
your life. You need to constantly ask yourself questions. What do I want to be
in life? What are my plans to getting there? What are the foundation steps I
need to take? I have always wanted to write to inspire, educate and motivate
people and organizations. It has always been something that I have always
wanted. I wanted to be a political scientist but my grades wouldn’t let me. I
wanted to add value to the system. I was initially studying business
administration because of my flair for commerce as well as interacting with people.
I just wanted to work where I could impact people. After so many obstacles I
settled in for Educational Management and got a certification in marketing.
What I am saying in essence is that there were a lot of things that I wanted to
do but it was while I got into the implementation process that I discovered
that things are not always as they seem on paper. If I had not ventured, I
would not have known. The most important thing now is that I am still
inspiring, educating and motivating people. I am a banker now and trainer and a
strategist. That’s awesome.
The
will to execute your plan is the major propellant you need to succeed in life.
The will to succeed drives you towards the big picture. No matter how perfect
your plans are they can never be flawless. And that is the beauty of life. Most
people get stuck not because their plans are not great. They get stuck because
they lack the will and gut to move on. If you don’t ask you can’t receive. If
you don’t knock on the door the door will not be opened and if you don’t seek
you can’t find. Desire is good but perseverance and doggedness will make things
better. If Asa Sandler did not buy the magic portion and as well start selling
there would not have been Coca Cola today. Same applies to my man Bill Gates, Steve
Jobs and a host of others. Just give it a shot. Project and propel into the
world. The world is waiting for your help. It is your turn to help make the
world a better place to live in.
Even
when we have planned and while implementing we are faced with obstacles and
setbacks like me just remember that the goal is the ultimate. It is not our
plans that keep us moving on but it is our will power, our gut level that moves
us onward. For most people it is the strength of will, the decision to take the
step of faith, to explore, to conquer that we need to take us to our paradise.
We all have our purposes and we must strive to achieve them. History and time
are there to judge us. One of my goals is to let you know that you can achieve
a lot only if you want to. It is not about me, it’s about you. It is your will
that will create a way out for you. To plan is wonderful and I sincerely
encourage it but to actualize your plan is what sets you apart to becoming an
achiever. No matter how enormous your plans are just start moving towards your
goal. A step taken today will lead you to your world. See you on top of your
riches.
Kolawole Kehinde is the C.O.O of The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc and currently lives in Abuja. He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.com and kolayore@yahoo.com 2348055159014 for speaking events and seminars on personal development, time management and marketing business services in the 21st century.
Is Your Mind Closed To New Ideas?
It’s funny but even the brightest minds grow dull if they do not
remain active. If you want to be on top always keep climbing. I went out with
my boss over the week to meet with a client. He was a former executive director
in one of the commercial banks in Nigeria. The meeting was to facilitate some business transactions;
however the meeting turned out to be a coaching session. While we were
discussing about the reason for our visit, the client told us that we needed to
start thinking about our lives outside our work. Interestingly most of us wake
up in the morning every day to think about the wrong things. We major on the
less important things in life. If you work in the corporate world, most
especially in the finance industry in Nigeria the pressure to meet up with our
targets and keep our jobs actually make us forget about our own lives, health
and family.
Thinking about new ideas for survival might pose to be a suicide
mission. What if I failed? What if I lost my steady income? Why should I jump
in the murky waters of entrepreneurship when I can receive a regular pay check?
While this could be assumed to be valid reasons, the truth of the matter is that
if we do not expand our minds we might even lose the jobs we are fooled to
have. The world is becoming more demanding and
so also are the bosses. It is only if you stayed renewed that you have the
chance of surviving corporate shake up and besides making extra bucks even if
you are fully employed will be an icing on the cake. The job you hold today won’t
be forever so do something that will outlive your existence.
The thought of survival is mostly predatory and rudimentary.
In fact it is the second need in the hierarchy of need as postulated by Abraham
Maslow. When we base our thought process on safety and security alone, it
closes our minds to the other hierarchy of needs, (self esteem, self
actualization etc). We need to open our minds to new opportunities and ideas.
Our minds are where the battle of life begins. Expand your mind.
The daily pressures of life can force you to want to recoil
into your shell but do not give up. When paying bills become more important
than thinking about making money then you need to wake up. Yes we need to pay
bills, but that should not be our only reason for existence. Think outside the
box. Stand tall and move forward. A new idea you have could change the world. Be a world
changer. Make your ideas count. Do not get into a rut. Move on with your dreams
and goals. Take a step of faith and take charge of your life once again.
Remember, you determine what happens to you good or bad. What opportunities do
you think you have in your current situation? Please explore them. Follow your
instincts and act on that hunch. Most of us are so scared to fail. We get
scared that people are going to laugh at us if we fail. The truth of the matter is that they would even laugh
at you if you were successful. People are always in the habit of laughing so why bother? Trust me they would. We let people set our life
agendas for us. If you refuse to think, chances are that people would think for
you.
The client looked at me and asked me one big question. He said “apart from your work, what do you think about?” That was a big question. Really it’s sad these days but a lot us have stopped thinking. We have dropped our dreams because of the everyday pressure of living. We have failed to move on with our dreams. We think about our depleting bank accounts, our receding hair line and so many other things. I had closed my mind and that is the truth. A lot of us have closed our minds to new ideas. We are scared to try out new things. I have a completed book, a detailed business plan for my training and management consulting firm but have been stalled because I have not been man enough to go beyond boundaries. How would I feel if in ten years from now if I still feel like the time is not right to take a leap? Life is fuelled by risk and only risk takers can overcome. Take the extra push. Nothing comes easy. You just have to take that effort and hope everything turns out well. It is a privilege to live in our time. It is a time where we are opened to so many possibilities. The mind is a terrible thing to waste. I see you on top of your riches.
The client looked at me and asked me one big question. He said “apart from your work, what do you think about?” That was a big question. Really it’s sad these days but a lot us have stopped thinking. We have dropped our dreams because of the everyday pressure of living. We have failed to move on with our dreams. We think about our depleting bank accounts, our receding hair line and so many other things. I had closed my mind and that is the truth. A lot of us have closed our minds to new ideas. We are scared to try out new things. I have a completed book, a detailed business plan for my training and management consulting firm but have been stalled because I have not been man enough to go beyond boundaries. How would I feel if in ten years from now if I still feel like the time is not right to take a leap? Life is fuelled by risk and only risk takers can overcome. Take the extra push. Nothing comes easy. You just have to take that effort and hope everything turns out well. It is a privilege to live in our time. It is a time where we are opened to so many possibilities. The mind is a terrible thing to waste. I see you on top of your riches.
Kolawole Kehinde is the C.O.O of The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc and
currently lives in Abuja. He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.com and
kolayore@yahoo.com 2348055159014 for speaking events and seminars on personal
development, time management and marketing business services in the 21st
century.
THE
IDEA EMBASSY “LITTLE LEADERS”MOTIVATIONAL AND LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT PROGRAMME:
"Ye
are little gods".
The All Year Round Leadership and
Motivational Sessions:
Idea Embassy proposes to you to be a part of the "Little Leaders" motivational and leadership development programme, designed to awaken and prepare you for leadership in the new world order. This is designed out of the dire need to start preparing “little leaders” who are in their most critical and formative years of leadership on how to become responsible and productive citizens of our nation and the world at large.
The programme is proposed on the main thrust that educational development is incomplete if it does not develop the leadership traits in human beings who in turn develop their society.
Our main thrust is helping participants develop
· Speaking
skills via speeches and personal aspiration sessions
· Perfecting
their writing and communication skills
· Inspiring
participants through documentary of achievers
· Free
one on one counseling sessions
· Career
counseling and lots more
What skills do you plan to target? (the
following is not all-inclusive)
· Making Friends (eye contact, conversational skills, sharing,
taking turns)
· Perspective Reasoning: Taking another person’s point of view,
Predicting Feelings
· Communicating Feelings
· Recognizing Impulses
· Problem Solving
· Giving/Receiving Compliments
· Dealing with Putdowns/Teasing
· Identifying Anger Triggers
· Learning to Calm Down & Manage Anger
· Keeping out of Fights
· Anticipating Consequences of one’s actions
· Telephone Conversation Skills
· Critical Thinking, Abstract Reasoning, & Inferential Thinking
What else should you learn?
· How to interact appropriately with others in a variety of
situations
· Understand the importance of expectations and rules
· How to better comply with limits set
· How to follow rules for groups, classroom activities, sports,
and other social situations
· Basic sports skills, good sportsmanship, cooperation, teamwork
· Ways to better tolerate and handle frustration
· Making and answering telephone calls
· Self-control in conflict situations
ABOUT THE CONSULTANT.
Mr Kolawole Kehinde is a Masters degree Holder in Educational Policy and Planning from the University of Ibadan and a chartered marketer of the National Institute of Marketing Of Nigeria. He is also a seasoned banker and has written various articles on time management. He is the principal consultant at The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc.
He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.comand kolayore@yahoo.com 2348055159014 for speaking events and seminars on personal development, time management and marketing business services in the 21stcentury.
The IPad Legacy of Steve Jobs
Steve Jobs is gone but his legacy lives forever. For those of us who had personally not owned one of his products before but had encountered their experiences will say that Steve Jobs actually touched our lives too. The Apple Company provides mobile and electronic ways of staying ahead socially and professionally. The Apple Company is really a service centric company. To serve is the greatest job on earth but most people will prefer to be served. We feel that serving makes us lose our self worth. We believe that we lose our self esteem if we serve others, but the truth remains that serving makes people dependent on us. Wow, what a perspective. Yes, serving keeps us on top of our situations.
A banker is a servant, a doctor is a servant and even the president is a servant. Steve Jobs was a servant but he controlled so much of our lives even in death. Even those who did not have a personal experience with him have continued to speak glowing about him. It’s been long since someone’s death caused this much attention in a good way. If you start to view your business as an avenue to serve you create a sense of purpose and urgency in your employees to give their best. It also gives you the opportunity to show how much you care about them handling your business.
The whole business world feel that to serve is noble and a privilege. However a lot of people misconstrue this as an avenue to con people. Why do you think there is a world economic depression? When you look at life as how much you receive or the wealth you amass, it sets in a feeling of deprivation and anxiety. That is when unhealthy competition sets in, but when you see life as how much you can give, it gives you a new sense of peace and understanding. It’s a greedy world no doubt, but it all depends on how you see it. We are what we think we are most of the times. I am constantly working on myself about changing my mindset and I tell you its not been an easy ride. If you live in a deprived society, the quest for survival will only be the thing to do. What about my next meal? What if I lost the sale? What if I helped him and he moved up the ladder ahead of me. People want to have more. Husbands hide their money from their wives and the wives are always looking for ways to draining them. Everybody wants to take and yet hold back too. This is not a sustainable lifestyle. Employers exploit their workers while employees are no more committed to the good of the company except the next paycheck. Almost everybody gets scared to be used but will be eager to use somebody at the slightest opportunity. People no longer think it’s cool to serve but to be served. Thankfully we live in a more enlightened society.
Many people made Steve Jobs rich because he was willing to be used and to serve. The service industry is the richest industry. It really pays to serve. Google has just clocked a little above 12 years. No doubt it has been 12 years of excellent service. Really we should be glad and happy if somebody needs our services. It is a call to duty a call to help sustain humanity. I see you on top of your riches.
Kolawole Kehinde is the C.O.O of The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc and currently lives in Abuja. He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.com and kolayore@yahoo.com 2348055159014 for speaking events and seminars on personal development, time management and marketing business services in the 21st century.
The Impeccable Service Provider
The Impeccable
Service Provider.
I just developed a training slide for
a partner on time management as it relates to personal and organizational
effectiveness. The training slide is a 4- module time management training
session and I included service delivery as a whole module for the programme. I
defined what service was as I perceived service delivery. I decided to include
"impeccable service delivery" as one of the sub topics but I got
stuck along the line. I asked myself this important question "At what
point does a service becomes impeccable?". I could have “googled” it up
(Google is an impeccable service provider trust me and is synonymous to finding
any information you need) but decided to do a little thinking and research on
my own. I stumbled on one article “Why Did Big Ideas Die” on Forbes magazine by
Steve Denning and thanked my goodness, because this was just what I needed to
put me back on track.
Working in a financial institution where
providing excellent services have become a top priority no doubt has shifted my
paradigm as regards service delivery. In fact life is all about either giving
or receiving services one way or the other. From the laundry man that comes to
pick your clothes, to the restaurant where you have your lunch break you are
constantly besieged by service. What this means in essence is that service
takes place when a need or specific want is being provided for or rendered. But
then the truth of the matter is not whether the service has been provided or
not but that if such provision was satisfactory and appreciated. That is what I
term Impeccable Service Delivery. For a service to become impeccable, it has to
be able to reach a higher level of satisfaction and appreciation. For the
purpose of this article an impeccable service provider is one that: Determines
the kind of feeling and experience you want your customer to achieve and live
it. This means that you need to set your expectations. I believe that’s where
the word standard came from. An impeccable service provider creates a fool
proof process to achieving that desire. An impeccable service provider creates
a desire to want to give more.
My customer gave me a FlyTouch tablet PC as my
wedding gift and I am forever grateful for that. I drove down to my telecoms
service provider to find out the best internet plan for my new toy. I already
have a laptop, a CDMA phone that has internet compatibility with my laptop as
well as a black berry phone. I wanted to have a cost effective and seamless
internet access on all these devices as against having separate internet plans
for all my devices. I was not using a single telecoms provider and the cost of
entry for personal internet users is still way high in this side of the world.
The interesting thing is that these telecoms provider have not been proactive
enough or at best just don’t want to do anything about it. The customer service
officer I met for enquiries referred me to a product officer who happened to
have his plate full as he was besieged by a series of complaints and requests
from customers. I obviously joined to queue hoping to get my problem solved.
The product officer from mere observation was not in the best of moods because
there were two ladies practically on his head who needed answers no matter
what. I watched with some keen interest. I wanted to weigh the service standard
with what obtained in my organization. The product officer had a straight face
and determined not to laugh or make some joke with anybody or anything that
passed. He was just trying to scare his customers away with his attitude. I
honestly feel that HR officers must really screen customer service and sales
officers before recruiting them. You cannot make friends if you are not
friendly so as you cannot solve problems if you don’t listen. Most of the time
front line officers are the ones that kill an organization not the products.
Anyway I am not writing as a consumer rights protection advocate but really who
shouldn’t? Customers are the reason businesses exist. No customer no business,
no profits and business folds up. Delivering impeccable service is a choice. It
can either be delivered by the employer or the employee. Here are tips to move
you closer to becoming an impeccable service provider.
Desire to envision success: Success is not only
attained in the effective completion of a process but also the reaction you
have received from such process. When you think about the end result i.e.
picturing the smiles on the face of your customers, it will push you to move
towards that goal.
Treat rejections and attitudes as catalysts for
customer satisfaction: You are what you accept. We all have our issues and it
will interest you to know that everyday will bring up new issues, so learn how
to deal with that fact. When your customers give you an attitude just look
beyond them. Most times it’s the product and not the person that the customers
attack. The truth is that the customer either needs a service or has just come
to complain about a service failure. You have to be humble enough to understand
that as a service provider. I believe that is why we have the R&D
department. Products are not perfect and so also are people. The people in the
R&D department know that there are better ways of doing things. So when a
customer comes with a complaint, just know that your R&D crew has to start
working again.
Think outside the box: This is an overused cliché. Learn how to do give more than you have promised. There is power in brainstorming. We get stuck most of the times and that is quite natural. When we come to this state, then it is time to think outside the box. Creativity and innovation are critical drivers of the human race.
Think outside the box: This is an overused cliché. Learn how to do give more than you have promised. There is power in brainstorming. We get stuck most of the times and that is quite natural. When we come to this state, then it is time to think outside the box. Creativity and innovation are critical drivers of the human race.
Plan your work and work your plan: There will
always be competition, roadblocks and setbacks on your journey to success.
Learn how to go on without necessarily bowing to distractions. Persistence pays
and persistence brings perfection. Practice what you want to achieve all of the
time. People would always analyze you, but it depends on you to either let that
weigh you down or affect you. Keep moving on. Seek to know more: The truth of
the matter is that there is no end to learning. We learn every day. Don’t be
too proud to want to know or say you do not know. Someone once mentioned that
wisdom is knowing that you know nothing.
It saves you a whole lot of trouble and thinking.
As I got back to my car, shaking my head I
wondered how many people this good looking but bad natured product officer
would have torn into pieces with his service style. I am sure most of the
people he has had encounter with will not love come to his table anymore for
enquiries and other issues. In the short run he would be glad customers are not
bothering him but on the long term he might just end up being laid off or kill
the business. It all depends on you to determine if he is an impeccable service
provider or not. See you on top of your riches.
Kolawole Kehinde is the C.O.O of The Idea Embassy and R.E.E.L Inc and currently lives in Abuja. He can be reached on kolamagic@gmail.com and kolayore@yahoo.com 2348097705804 for speaking events and seminars on personal development, time management and marketing business services in the 21st century.
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